THE BLOG OF DISQUIET :Qweir Notionsin the Armpit of DiogenesbyDINGO the DISSIDENT binge-thinkersinceFebruary 2008. ................................................................................................................................................................................................................... ........................................................................................................... .............................................................................................................................................................................................................................
Saturday, 9 May 2009
It never occurred to me before
that sex for most people is some sort of validation.
Yet this might have been part of the soft, rich tapestry of feelings I had on those few occasions when intimacy was flawless, wonderful.
I think if you had been married it would have occurred to you. Then again, perhaps just a monogamous relationship-no, wait, that's not fair to say either. It never occurred to you that some might seek sex as a validation for love? You lucky bastard.
I think that I could see that the expression of love was a validation of (or do I mean proof of ? or do I mean excuse for ? or ruse to 'get') sex - for men - though not in the homosexual context... What I meant was that men see sex as validation of what they imagine to be masculinity; and women also see it as validation of their femininity, quite apart from the 'love' issue...
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I think if you had been married it would have occurred to you.
Then again, perhaps just a monogamous relationship-no, wait,
that's not fair to say either. It never occurred to you that some might seek sex as a validation for love?
You lucky bastard.
I think that I could see that the expression of love was a validation of (or do I mean proof of ? or do I mean excuse for ? or ruse to 'get') sex - for men - though not in the homosexual context...
What I meant was that men see sex as validation of what they imagine to be masculinity; and women also see it as validation of their femininity, quite apart from the 'love' issue...
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