Dingo the Dissident

THE BLOG OF DISQUIET : Qweir Notions in the Armpit of Diogenes by DINGO the DISSIDENT binge-thinker since February 2008.
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Saturday, 9 May 2009

It never occurred to me before

that sex
for most people
is some sort of
validation.

Yet this might have been
part of the soft, rich
tapestry of feelings I had
on those few occasions
when intimacy
was flawless,
wonderful.

2 comments:

bandit said...

I think if you had been married it would have occurred to you.
Then again, perhaps just a monogamous relationship-no, wait,
that's not fair to say either. It never occurred to you that some might seek sex as a validation for love?
You lucky bastard.

Wofl said...

I think that I could see that the expression of love was a validation of (or do I mean proof of ? or do I mean excuse for ? or ruse to 'get') sex - for men - though not in the homosexual context...
What I meant was that men see sex as validation of what they imagine to be masculinity; and women also see it as validation of their femininity, quite apart from the 'love' issue...